When you learn to lead it instead of being led by it, it becomes your strength, not your weakness.
An insatiable desire for sex may seem like the hallmark of the most masculine, but it is actually a wolf in sheep’s clothing, consuming the minds and depleting the energy and potential of men of all ages.
If you find yourself constantly seeking new and more intense sexual experiences: consuming porn, creating ai sexual partners, visiting massage parlors or escorts or simply fantasizing about your next sexual encounter often, you are not alone.
Sex sells because it’s pinnacle feels so damn good. But the dopamine spike that surges through you like heroin also has a deceptive impact that limits your capacity in a myriad of ways. It limits the connection with your partner; you misinterpret lust for love and your woman may experience being objectified, their value diminished.
Lust deceives you into believing that this is what women actually want and you’ll wonder why your relationships fail, or why you never feel truly fulfilled. It also steals your focus and your energy, the very concentration and vitality you could be using to expand your business or write a novel or design a new technology, or, ironically, creatively nurture a relationship, which is likely the thing you desire more than sex but just don’t know it.
A man’s sexual energy, when left unexamined and unharnessed, is like the One Ring—it tempts, consumes and isolates. It promises power, but in truth it robs one of clarity, vitality, and connection. But unlike the Ring, sexual energy isn’t inherently corrupt—it’s sacred fire. And when you learn to lead it instead of being led by it, it becomes your strength, not your weakness.
We know you, because we are you. We have been on a journey of education and experimentation. We began as serial masturbators and consumers of porn and alleyway massage parlors. That we could somehow fill whatever it was that left us empty with heightened orgasms. But that only left us more depleted. We discovered these experiences to be unfulfilling and could never quench our bottomless desire. Through consciousness we came to understand that we were chasing a lie.
As we studied and practiced and learned and grew, we recognized that we were squandering the very energy that could create deeply loving, connected and passionate relationships with our partners, relationships founded in love and safety, and as a result create an opening to the very echelons of sexual experiences we desired in the first place. Not to mention a focus that would allow us to build businesses in the world that serve others while creating freedom as well.
Most men were never taught what to do with their sexual energy—only how to discharge it. Our intention is to reverse this epidemic of uncontrolled and rampant sexual energy through education that offers guidance and mentorship in this neglected domain of masculinity; to transcend the taboo of sex and rewrite a more conscious doctrine of masculinity that is founded in power, not force.
This missing teaching is not your fault, but if you’re interested in creating deeply loving, connective and passionate relationships with willing partner(s), as well as harnessing your true potential to create extraordinary things in your world, this new learning is your responsibility.
Sexual energy is raw power. Power must be contained, directed, and embodied. Mature masculinity doesn’t eliminate desire—it leads it. On the contrary, every time you tune into porn or even your own fantasy and stroke forth your next orgasm, you drain yourself of real energy that could be used for something constructive.
Furthermore, you wire your brain for instant gratification and lose capacity to stay focused and committed to whatever worthy endeavor you seek. You have goals and intentions you desire to achieve that elude you because you have not developed the skills to harness your mental power and vital energy sources.
There’s a part of your brain that is threatened by this message. It is revolting against this teaching, justifying your actions, convincing you that you’re just a manly man who loves sex and whom all women would want to fuck. After all, look at your career or your bank account or your family or your business you’ve built.
No one is taking away what you’ve created in your life. We honor you for the creative human being and creator that you are. But all you have to do is be still for a few minutes and reflect on your relationship to your sexual energy and the truth will emerge.
Perhaps there is anxiety or fear that lingers; or guilt and regret about how you navigate sex when alone or with a partner(s). Maybe a loneliness or separation that lurks within you. We’re simply inviting you to look within and consider that it is your relationship with sex and your sexual energy that is the source of these things that plague you. And they manifest in ways that you perhaps do not see but likely have a sense of their connection to the void within you.
Take just a few moments and objectively consider these questions:
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- Have you had the experience of sexual release leaving you feeling emptier instead of full? How often does this occur?
- If your sexual habits were made public, would you respect the man you see? Would you see him as a powerful leader, or someone who is a slave to his impulses?
- Who could you become if lust stopped running the show?
- Are you open to the possibility that this is something not to figure out alone, but rather with the support of fellow conscious brothers who desire your true success and happiness?
We created the Path first for ourselves – a conscious pathway forward in the domain of sex and sexual energy so we could be the very best versions of ourselves for our partners, families and stakeholders in our lives. During this creation dozens of men organically showed up in our lives seeking help, support and light. We have responded to the demand with the creation of True North: A Man’s Guide To Power and Sovereignty.
This digital course is a gateway to a community of like-minded and like-valued conscious men who desire fulfillment in their lives and to stop chasing dopamine highs and instead achieve powerful results in their relationships, careers and communities. Men who respect women and their contribution; men who desire to harness their own vitality to create so much power in their relationships that their women offer themselves consentually and excitedly in the bedroom while creating a deeper love and connection than ever thought possible.
If you’re ready to break the pattern of unconscious masturbation and harness the power of your sexual energy and become a powerful leader in your relationship and life, we invite you to join us in True North: A Mans Guide to Power and Sovereignty. We invite you to step onto the Path to become the man you actually desire to be.
Cheers to your evolution,
-Marc & Justin
